Christ, the Eternal High Priest, and the meaning of priestly celibacy

It is the Church’s hope and desire that her celibate clergy (and her consecrated religious, too) would show forth to the world, in a unique manner, the Church’s identity as both the virginal mother and the fruitful spouse of Christ.

(Josh Applegate/

Some time ago, the Holy See gave episcopal conferences the possibility of introducing into their particular calendars the liturgical observance of the feast of Our Lord Jesus Christ Eternal High Priest on the Thursday after Pentecost.1 The bishops of England and Wales took up that invitation; the bishops of the United States did not. I think that was a missed opportunity. Of course, if the Thursday after Pentecost is a ferial day, any priest can celebrate the Votive Mass of Jesus Christ Eternal High Priest. That’s not the point. Celebrating that Mass as a nation would be a communal affirmation of the Sacred Priesthood and an implicit invitation for the Catholic community to pray the Lord of the harvest to send laborers into His harvest (cf. Mt 9:38) and for young men to consider that call in a serious way.

That said, I would like to focus on one particular aspect of the priesthood, namely, celibacy, which has been under fire since the 1960s; indeed, it has been under fire throughout history. So, why are priests of the Latin Church celibate?2

In truth, the connection between priesthood and celibacy is not unique to Catholicism. We find such linkage in various pagan cults of Greece and Rome and, even more radically, in Stoicism’s overall rejection of sexual pleasure. While these historical precedents may offer interesting angles of insight or a “natural” intuition in this regard, Christian faith sees something much deeper here.

Catholics believe that through the Sacrament of Holy Order, a man is “configured” or “conformed” to Christ the High Priest. In other words, no Catholic priest “has” a priesthood of his own; rather, he shares in the priesthood of the one and only Priest of the New Covenant, Jesus Christ. Our participation in that priesthood needs to be as full and visible as possible; “maleness” is one such sign; celibacy is another. The first is an absolute, while the second is not – although the appropriateness of the sign of celibacy touches very closely on the nature of the priesthood.3

Jesus was a priest at the core of His being, which is to say that He did not simply function as a priest on certain occasions (e.g., in offering Himself to the Father on Good Friday); rather, His entire life was an oblation given to the Father, thus uniting within Himself the roles of Victim and Priest. The priests of the Old Covenant functioned at the Temple according to a schedule; while “on duty,” they lived at the Temple to ensure ritual purity. Among other things, that meant abstaining from marital intercourse. The tenth chapter of the Epistle to the Hebrews teaches us that our great High Priest fulfilled all those holy sacrifices by His one eternal offering; in that moment, He also abolished priestly functionalism. That is, priesthood is not what one does but who one is. Since the Lord’s entire life was a priestly offering, His observance of continence was not an on-again, off-again phenomenon. And it was the self-same approach to which He called His disciples when He urged them to leave house, wife, brothers, parents, and children “for the sake of the kingdom of God” (Lk 18:29).

Therefore, we see that the Twelve, although probably many of whom were married, were obedient to the Master’s command; they left all to follow Him in a radical response to prepare the way for that time and place in which “men neither marry nor are given in marriage” (Mt 22:30). Was this expected? Hardly. Judaism had a keen sense of the meaning and beauty of marriage and family.4 Jesus’ approach went against the goad here, but that was not the only instance of such a departure from the expected pattern of teaching or behavior on His part. Can we forget that for centuries Jewish law had permitted divorce and remarriage? Our Lord’s reversal of that norm was so unexpected that it caused the disciples to suggest that perhaps it might be better not to marry at all (cf. Mt 19:10)! The Savior was not simply pleased to be counter-cultural (although He was certainly that); He was quite intent on presenting Himself – and any who wanted to be a part of Him – as eschatological signs, that is, as living pointers to the age to come, wherein every human good (even married love) is subsumed into the Summum Bonum (the Highest Good), allowing God to be “all in all” (1 Cor 15:28).

Clear evidence from the Early Church5 demonstrates that when married men were admitted to the priesthood, they and their wives gave up their marital rights and lived as brother and sister.6 With the passage of time, the Church in the West took a slightly different tack by calling only men who showed a capacity to live the charism of celibacy, not unlike the Lord’s admonition found in Mt 19:12.

The first major departure from the expectation of priestly continence occurred with the Council of Trullo.7 Its most problematic canon dealt with clerical marriages and effectively turned the entire Tradition on its head not only by permitting married men to be ordained but by allowing for their continued use of marital rights. The legislation, however, was rather convoluted and demanded continence before a priest could celebrate the Eucharist. In many ways, unwittingly, Trullo set the stage for what later became the Protestant notion of priesthood, reducing priesthood (where it survived) to a liturgical role. The ontology of Holy Order (namely, that a man is changed in his very being, which identity is a constant aspect of his existence) had been downgraded to functionalism (that is, that a man is a priest when he is “doing” something priestly). Doing had replaced being – the very dichotomy the eternal High Priest had reversed. Not surprisingly, ten centuries later, the functional concept of priesthood among the Protestant Reformers came to allow, and even demand, the demise of mandatory celibacy.

Besides the ontological nature of the priesthood, celibacy is particularly appropriate because Catholic theology assigns a sacramental meaning to matrimony as well as to priesthood. It was undoubtedly this very notion which brought Paul to conclude that the married state and full-time discipleship were in conflict (cf. 1 Cor 7:32-33). Now, while some observers have argued that Paul simply had a negative assessment of marriage, an objective reading of the passage will not bear out such a reading. It would seem that Paul is saying, however, that given the radical nature of Christian discipleship and the pressing (and good) demands of marriage, the two states are incompatible within one person. Seen in this light, what the Apostle was holding out for and what the Latin Church has opted for is an understanding of Matrimony and Holy Order as both deserving of a full commitment, with no divided existence. Far from being a negative judgment on marriage, then, the Church’s position exalts Christian marriage and urges taking that vocation and sacrament seriously – as seriously as priestly ordination.

Clerical celibacy also bears an eschatological meaning, that is, it points man here below to a life to come. As we saw earlier, our Lord Himself spoke about this dimension when He reminded His audience that in the age to come human beings take on an angelic aspect as they exchange their physical desires for contemplation (cf. Mt 22:30). Celibacy, then, is not simply a lifestyle, it is a message – a prophetic message – that helps the human race in general and Christians in particular to remember that there is more to life than the sensual and encourages them not to get lost in the ephemeral. In our contemporary, sex-saturated world, this word needs to be spoken as often and as loudly and clearly as possible. In fact, the visible but silent presence of Catholic clergy and religious on the streets of the secular city constitutes a most eloquent testimony to the existence of the transcendent and stands as an on-going invitation to the world to move beyond that which is passing; this witness is not unlike that of Ezekiel, who is told by the Lord that his very life should stand as a sign for the people (cf. Ez 24:24). The priest, as an alter Christus, experiences in his person a foretaste of the life of Heaven by being focused solely on God; and, on the basis of his personal experience, he likewise appeals to his fellow men to follow him as he has followed Christ. The Eucharistic Sacrifice, the eschatological sign par excellence, is similarly celebrated most fittingly by one who is himself an eschatological sign. In 1988, then-Archbishop J. Francis Stafford summed up this aspect of clerical celibacy thus:

Since Christ was unmarried, we may find it strange at first that the [Second Vatican] Council speaks of fatherhood in Christ. Yet the hymn Summi Parentis Filio speaks of Christ as father of the world to come. If we bear in mind what St. Paul teaches us about the spousal love of Christ for His Church, we will see that this “world to come” is nothing less than the child of that union, the fruit of that love. . . . It is not for nothing that the priest is addressed as “Father” by his people.

As with the fatherhood in Christ, that of the priest points to the world to come: His solitude and earthly barrenness, a prefiguring of death; his prayer, pastoral charity and spiritual fruitfulness, a sign of God’s power which is at work now to sanctify and so to yield eternal life.8

The most obvious benefit of celibacy is pastoral, as it “is lived in an atmosphere of constant readiness to allow oneself to be taken up, as it were ‘consumed,’ by the needs and demands of the flock” (Pastores Dabo Vobis, n. 28). In saying this, Pope John Paul II was merely echoing the Fathers of the Second Vatican Council, who declared that “this perfect continence for love of the Kingdom of Heaven has always been held in high esteem by the Church as a sign and stimulus of love, and as a singular source of spiritual fertility in the world” (Lumen Gentium, n. 42). Who can fail to be impressed by the missionary labors of millions of priests in history or the witness of thousands more in the gulags and concentration camps of the past century? Can one doubt that their celibacy allowed them – even challenged them – to be such constant and faithful signs of Christ’s saving message of truth and love? Humanly speaking, could we have expected such dramatic testimony from one rightly concerned for the welfare of a wife and children? Much less dramatic – but no less impressive – is the pastoral service of hundreds of thousands of celibate priests whose day begins before sunrise and ends as the clock’s hands move into a new day. Like a candle, the celibate priest fulfills his mission by “burning himself out” for Christ, His Gospel, and His Church,

Apart from these more “pragmatic” considerations on celibacy, a quick re-reading of what I have written here shows that I have often relied on comparisons between priesthood and marriage. And I think that, although accidental in part, this tendency has been fortuitous. Both vocations are highly demanding, requiring tremendous amounts of self-sacrifice. In fact, I am reminded of an exhortation that once formed part of the marriage liturgy (a part I still use). The bride and groom were instructed that for a marriage to succeed, self-sacrifice had to become a fixture in the relationship. But the text went on to note, both realistically and hopefully: “Sacrifice is usually difficult and irksome; love can make it easy; perfect love can make it a joy.” It is the Church’s conviction – after centuries of experience – that perfect love can make celibacy a joy for the priest himself and for the whole Church he serves.

Pulling together theology and spirituality, we bring to mind that as all was being consummated on Calvary, we encounter three virgins – Jesus, Mary, and John – forming the ecclesiola, the “little Church” about to be born from the wounded side of the Lord (cf. Jn 19). That Church embodied the seeds of a virginity destined to bear fruit, both in time and unto eternity. It is the Church’s hope and desire that her celibate clergy (and her consecrated religious, too) would show forth to the world, in a unique manner, the Church’s identity as both the virginal mother and the fruitful spouse of Christ. Proposition 11 of the 1990 synod on priestly formation echoed that hope:

The Synod would like to see celibacy presented and explained in the fullness of its biblical, theological and spiritual richness, as a precious gift given by God to His Church and as a sign of the Kingdom which is not of this world, a sign of God’s love for this world and of the undivided love of the priest for God and for God’s People, with the result that celibacy is seen as a positive enrichment of the priesthood.9

Nearly thirty years on, that wish of the Synod Fathers is yet to be realized. For those who argue that “optional celibacy” would reverse the downward spiral of priestly vocations, I would note that regions that have not produced priestly vocations (as in the Amazon) do not have a problem with celibacy (unless we are suggesting that young men today are more sexually out of control than in past centuries – as perhaps in the dying Roman Empire?)? No, the problem is not celibacy; it is a failure to present the priesthood as a vocation worthy of sacrifice. Further, if “optional celibacy” is the panacea for the priest shortage, please explain the terrible shortage of priests among the Eastern Orthodox (who have had “optional celibacy” for a millennium).

Gabrielle Brown, a non-believer, offers a most positive assessment of celibacy in The New Celibacy, dispelling many myths perpetuated in some versions of a “black legend”:

There are many priests, nuns and monks who have confronted and accepted their sexual natures so completely that they are happily and comfortably celibate.

Freud was surprisingly open to the positive results of celibacy. He observed that people can achieve happiness by transcending sexuality for a higher experience of love and took examples from religious life.

Celibacy can both strengthen a man and soften him.

In ancient Rome, despite its dissolute reputation, the effort of continence was greatly admired and thought to represent a superior nature and a character verging on the divine.

Love is less likely to be restricted in its nonsexual expression than in a love relationship focused on that one overriding concern – which often occurs when sexuality dominates the relationship.

Those [celibates] who have achieved a permanent state of pleasure or fulfillment are said to radiate a kind of energy of love which is constant, unbounded, brilliant, and truly universal.

Celibacy is a style of life known only to humans.

In recent times, there has been a revival of the old canard that celibacy fosters unnatural and sinful behavior. Blessed John Henry Cardinal Newman, in his Lectures on the Present Position of Catholics in England, took on that issue in the nineteenth century:

I state my deliberate conviction that there are, to say the least, as many offenses against the marriage vow among Protestant ministers, as there are against the vow of celibacy among Catholic priests. . . . But if Matrimony does not prevent cases of immorality among Protestant ministers, it is not celibacy which causes them among Catholic priests. It is not what the Catholic Church imposes, but what human nature prompts, which leads any portion of her ecclesiastics into sin. Human nature will break out, like some wild and raging element, under any system; it bursts out under the Protestant system; it bursts out under the Catholic; passion will carry away the married clergyman as well as the unmarried priest. . . . Till, then, you can prove that celibacy causes what Matrimony certainly does not prevent, you do nothing at all.

Blessed Paul VI begins his 1967 encyclical, Sacerdotalis Caelibatus, by referring to celibacy as “a brilliant jewel.” The preface for this lovely feast sings: “As they [priests] give up their lives for you and for the salvation of their brothers and sisters, they strive to be conformed to the image of Christ himself and offer you a constant witness of faith and love.” May Christ the Eternal High Priest, from the throne of His Cross, accompanied by His virginal Mother and virginal disciple, aid the Church in coming to an ever- deeper appreciation for that “brilliant jewel.”


1 With the insertion of the obligatory memorial of Mary Mother of the Church on the Monday after Pentecost and the possibility of this feast on the Thursday after Pentecost, are we on our way toward the restoration of the unfortunately jettisoned Octave of Pentecost?

2 Presently, we leave aside a contrary practice in the Churches of the East and dispensations granted to convert clergy. For the moment, I simply note that I think Pope John Paul II’s pastorally sensitive and generous willingness to dispense convert clergy from continence after Catholic ordination was the “camel’s nose in the tent” for subsequent calls for deviation from the norm.

3 n 2001, I edited Priestly Celibacy: Its Scriptural, Historical, Spiritual, and Psychological Roots (Newman House Press). Interestingly, of all the contributors, the psychiatrist and I were the only “cradle” Catholics; perhaps most interesting was the chapter by the wife of a married minister, whose union ended in divorce. This book has been used widely in seminary courses on celibacy.

4Yet, even within Judaism, one finds certain of the prophets living celibately, and convincing evidence from Qumran suggests that at least some members of that community lived in celibacy. Interestingly enough, rabbinic literature also recounts a tradition that Moses – after beholding God on Mount Sinai – never again had sexual relations with his wife, the obvious implication being that once one had seen God, all other relationships and loves paled into insignificance. See, in this regard, Anthony Opisso’s “The Perpetual Virginity of Mary in the Light of Jewish Law and Tradition,” in The Catholic Answer (July-August 1996).

5 Roman Cholij, Clerical Celibacy in East and West (Herefordshire, England: Flower Wright Books, 1989); also Christian Cochini, Apostolic Origins of Priestly Celibacy (San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 1990).

6 Indeed, St. Paul speaks of various apostolic men who are accompanied, not by a “wife” (as some mischievous English translations put it), but by a “sister” (1 Cor 9:5), that is, a Christian woman who tended to the needs of these men in much the same way as the women who accompanied Jesus (cf. Lk 8:1-3).

The movement away from married clerics who abstained from sexual intercourse when “on duty” toward demanding “perfect continence” is already documented in the acta of the Council of Carthage in 390. Furthermore, the reason given for this discipline is the intercessory and mediatory nature of the priesthood in se and not merely through isolated mediatory or liturgical acts. Another point to note regarding Carthage’s dealing with the matter is that bishops, priests, and deacons alike fall “under the same obligation of chastity” because of their liturgical ministry, indeed, their liturgical way of life. Finally, it is worth observing that already in 390 we find an emphasis on the fact that the Fathers of Carthage are not inventing new legislation but simply enforcing what was “taught by the apostles and observed by antiquity itself” (Cochini, 4-5; emphasis added).

7 This council was an eastern regional synod, convoked ten years after the Second and Third Councils of Constantinople and intended to enact disciplinary canons. This controversial synod had to wait nearly two centuries to find a Roman Pontiff to ratify its laws – and then only cautiously.

8J. Francis Stafford, “The Mystery of the Priestly Vocation,” Origins 18.22 (Nov. 10, 1988).

9 Cited in Pastores Dabo Vobis, n. 29.

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Reverend Peter M.J. Stravinskas founded The Catholic Answer in 1987 and The Catholic Response in 2004, as well as the Priestly Society of Blessed John Henry Cardinal Newman, a clerical association of the faithful, committed to Catholic education, liturgical renewal and the new evangelization. Father Stravinskas is also the President of the Catholic Education Foundation, an organization, which serves as a resource for heightening the Catholic identity of Catholic schools.


  1. “The legislation, however, was rather convoluted and demanded continence before a priest could celebrate the Eucharist.”

    This legislation is not unique to priests or other clerics in Eastern (Chalcedonian, at least) Orthodox Churches; the Trullanum Council only emphasized the application of this rule to clerics before handling the holy Gifts. In Orthodox Churches, all married people abstain both on the evening before and the evening after communion. (This used to be the practice of Eastern Catholic Churches as well, before they suffered a series of Latinizations since the twentieth century, which eventually led them to abandon their own old-age tradition with respect to fasting practices before communion, just as the Latin Catholic Church has done.)

  2. Was the early church’s clerics partaking of sin when they were married? I believe that celibacy is unnatural. How does anybody know if Jesus was celibate? Did he ever say anything about the subject? True, the church is unique when it comes to sexuality. Why are Nuns held to that rule?

    In some ways the Catholic Church thrives on man made rules.

    • D’you know, I’ve yet to see you write *anything* that indicates that you are actually a Catholic. You carp, criticize, whine, moan, and complain about every single Catholic discipline or dogma that is mentioned.

    • Celibacy is not un-natural, although it is not-natural in that it is super-natural. In other words, celibacy, properly understood and practiced, is not inhuman, although by God’s grace it is a sign and instrument of the kingdom of heaven which is above our human nature. Our Lord gave us this gift in Matt 19:12.

      • Father is a brilliant theologian and a great writer. I have read his various works in seminary and as a priest. I am not a raging liberal who believes women can be ordained to the priesthood or non-Catholic spouses of Catholics can normally receive Holy Communion.

        I do, however believe that faithful, practicing Catholics have the right to the Mass, “the source and summit of the Christian life”, as well as the other life giving Sacraments.

        That said, Father gives and incredibly closed and one sided view of celibacy and the priesthood.

        All valid priests both Catholic and Orthodox are configured to Christ the Great High Priest through Ordination. The priesthood is not their own but Christ’s and through Ordination they share in this inestimable gift. The Lord can conform a married man into His image as Priest if He chooses (and the Lord did in history).

        Maleness is a sign of a priest’s share in the one priesthood of our Lord Jesus. Father rightly argues that maleness is part of the absolute essence of the priesthood. Father also states that celibacy is not of the absolute essence of the priesthood but celibacy “touches very closely on the nature of the priesthood”.

        What is more important; celibacy or the life giving Sacraments? Some say, trained lay people or deacons can run parishes. Certainly they can do this by appointment of the bishop. But these ministers can only distribute pre sanctified Holy Communion to the people. They cannot offer the Divine Sacrifice. Is not the Mass essential (not just receiving the Blessed Sacrament) to building up the Church? What of those in the parish headed by a deacon or lay person who need the Sacrament of Penance or the Anointing of the Sick. Do they just have to wait for a circuit riding priest to come through town?

        It seems so following the reasoning of this article.

        Cannot true viri probati (preferably deacons) be ordained priests (with preparation) for the good of the Christian people? These men are clerics (already formed for diaconal ministry) who could be called by the bishop and ordained in agreement with their wives.

          • You might want to learn a bit more about what the Church teaches about the priesthood: “In the Eastern Churches a different discipline has been in force for many centuries: while bishops are chosen solely from among celibates, married men can be ordained as deacons and priests. This practice has long been considered legitimate; these priests exercise a fruitful ministry within their communities. Moreover, priestly celibacy is held in great honor in the Eastern Churches and many priests have freely chosen it for the sake of the Kingdom of God. In the East as in the West a man who has already received the sacrament of Holy Orders can no longer marry.” — Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1580

  3. Fr. Strawinskas, thanks for this essay. I hope you give me permission for saving it. God bless you and your ministry always.

  4. “…the priest’s celibacy will make full sense if he looks at the celebration of the Eucharist, the Mass, as a sacramental rendering of Jesus’ sacrifice. Jesus had to be celibate in a superlative sense, because He was fullness itself, for only such fullness cold achieve the redemption of man. This is the gist, the pivot, the fulcrum of anything offered as the theology of priestly celibacy or even as a modest contribution to it…”

    Stanley Jaki, Theology of Priestly Celibacy, p. 216.

  5. In Judaism you could not be a Pharisee if you weren’t married. Paul was a Pharisee and married and this was his exhortation to Timothy in the next to last letter he wrote before his death: 1 Timothy 1- 5
    But the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons, by means of the hypocrisy of liars seared in their own conscience as with a branding iron, men who FORBID MARRIAGE and advocate abstaining from foods which God has created to be gratefully shared in by those who believe and know the truth. For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with gratitude; for it is sanctified by means of the word of God and prayer.

    • That would hold a bit more water if the Catholic Church was opposed to marriage or forbid. But the Church doesn’t do any such thing. See:

      Also, it’s widely accepted that Paul was either a widower or never married, based in part on 1 Corinthians 7:8 and other passages in his writings.

      Paul, in writing to Timothy, was most likely addressing certain sects that exhibited tendencies and beliefs that we now refer to as “gnostic”.

      • In the article you linked, the prooftext used is (1 Cor 7:1-2, 7-10), which neatly steps over v6, “But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.” And given that in v8 he states, “Now to the unmarried and to widows…” Paul is certainly not talking about the priesthood. That entire chapter is not speaking of priests.

        God’s word for the qualifications of overseers. “An overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach. He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity. And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he may not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil” (1 Tim. 3:2-7).

        • Heh? You aren’t making any sense St. Paul said, “But I speak this by indulgence, not by commandment” about the preceding passage (about letting each man have his wife, and each woman her husband, and how each has power over the other’s body, and should not defraud each other except for a time). In other words, he’s not *commanding* anybody to marry. Then he says he wishes that all men were like himself, and “But I say to the unmarried, and to the widows: It is good for them if they so continue, even as I.” Which is whence one draws the obvious conclusion that either he was unmarried or he was widowed. Which was what Mr. Olson said; he wasn’t at that point discussing the priesthood.

          As for “above reproach, the husband of one wife,” by your reasoning he would not be above reproach if for some reason he wasn’t married (“Hey! You! Your wife died 3 minutes ago and now you aren’t the husband of one wife, so I reproach you!”) or if he didn’t have any children (“I don’t care if you God did not see fit to bless your marriage with children: you don’t have your children under control and so I reproach you!”) It ought to be obvious that what he is saying is that if the episkopos is married he should have only one wife, and if he has children he should have them under control, not that he absolutely has to have a wife and he absolutely has to have children.

          • The first passage was the one referenced by Carl in defense of priests remaining celibate. As I said, nothing in that passage pertains to that issue. And BTW, if you use a Concordance, you’d know that the word used was in the Greek was not Indulgence. It should also be noted that the apostles believed Jesus was coming back in their lifetime, so it was more important in the little time that remained to be about His work.
            Paul was a Pharisee prior to his conversion and that was a requirement. Even as an Overseer, Paul deemed it a good practice. However, if one’s wife died, that was never a requirement to give up that position. It is not by MY reasoning, it is the Word of God that you disagree with.

          • No, dearie, it’s your personal interpretation of the Word of God with which I disagree. Startling as it may be for you to learn this, you are not God.

            The Church’s interpretation of the Bible is the authoritative one, and what you think is pretty much irrelevant. The Bible derives its authority from the Church, not vice-versa.

            “The first passage was the one referenced by Carl in defense of priests remaining celibate.”

            I see wherein the confusion lies here: I was referring to what Carl wrote in his message, and you were referring to what was said in the article. In any event, the same statement that I made in my previous post applies: ” It ought to be obvious that what he is saying is that if the episkopos is married he should have only one wife, and if he has children he should have them under control, not that he absolutely has to have a wife and he absolutely has to have children.”

            I used the Douai Rheims translation. The word in Greek is συνγνώμην, which seems to be translated “concession” (I don’t speak or read Greek so I’m judging by what I’ve found at some reliable sites online, notably BibleHub). “Indulgentiam” is in the Vulgate. Concession or indulgence mean the same thing: it’s not a command.

  6. I truly enjoyed reading this essay. It is clear, lucid and rich in content. However, I disagree with the discipline of celibacy. In my travels to the Philippines and two African nations, Uganda and Kenya, it is publicly notorious that many priests of the Latin Rite have wives and children. It is funny to see how they do not bother to keep it as a secret anymore. I always laugh at it, do my missionary work and return home to USA. God is good!

    • So, to be clear, you disagree with the discipline of celibacy in the Western Church because some priests don’t adhere to their vows? Using that logic, might you be opposed to vows of fidelity and chastity since some Catholics are adulterers?

      • Mr. Carl: I also share in the frustration that many Catholics feel due to scandals, accusations against ordained members of our clergy, signs of lack of fidelity and adherence to the Church’s Magisterium and a long etc. I am a practicing Catholic who simply travels somewhat frequently and sees what is evident in those territories that I mentioned earlier. As you say, there are many adulterers who are ecclesiastically married and also many among those who wear the Roman collar!! Pax Christi tecum, hodie et semper frater.

    • “It is funny to see how they do not bother to keep it as a secret anymore. I always laugh at it”

      Find mortal sin amusing, do you? Ooooookay.

  7. “Pope John Paul II’s pastorally sensitive and generous willingness to dispense convert clergy from continence after Catholic ordination”

    Do you have a reference to a written statement from St John Paul saying this? My understanding is that the Church has simply been silent on the matter of whether such priests are required to be sexually continent. Same with married deacons.

  8. Great piece. Much needed. Thanks for cutting through the BS. I’m so tired of histrionic writing about celibacy, and this was a nice respite.

  9. A person is configured or conformed to Christ the High Priest through Baptism and Confirmation.
    “Through the sacraments of Baptism and Confirmation the faithful are ‘consecrated to be . . . a holy priesthood.’[21] The ministerial or hierarchical priesthood of bishops and priests, and the common priesthood of all the faithful participate, ‘each in its own proper way, in the one priesthood of Christ.’” (CCC 1546 and 1547).
    Holy Orders confers a function within the one Priesthood of Christ. It is not an entirely separate priesthood.

  10. Father edited a book on priestly celibacy. He mentions that one contributor was a wife of a pastor who is now divorced from her husband.

    So begins one of the usual reasons to try to disqualify the ordination of married men. Because some marriages of protestant ministers (and sadly Orthodox priests or in a few cases Catholic priests) end in divorce this is held up as a good reason to disallow the ordination of married men to the priesthood. Let’s be honest: mandatory celibacy throughout the centuries also has had its share of problems.

    The Lord Jesus was, unlike the Old Testament priests always giving Himself to the Father and to us as a self-offering. He did not take His priesthood “on and off” or follow a rotation as did the temple priests. In the Lord’s very essence He is High Priest. This is all true.

    The Lord Jesus also counseled that His disciples should leave wife and family for the sake of the Kingdom. (Lk 18:29). The Gospels are silent on whether the Lord demanded his disciples to leave wife and family. Given the Lord’s teaching on divorce (Mt 19:3-10, Mark 10:2-12) I don’t think we can simply say that the disciples left their wives and families to preach the Gospel. They certainly could have left wife and family at home, defenseless and in poverty or they could have taken them on their journeys. The Scriptures are silent regarding this. The Lord seems to be very stringent regarding the condemnation of divorce (in fact or by abandonment). Some of the disciples must have had children as well, were they also abandoned?

    In Matthew 19:10-12 the disciples after hearing our Lord’s teaching in divorce say, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
    The Lord then says said the disciples, “Not everyone can accept this teaching, but only those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let anyone accept this who can.” (Mt 19, 10-12)

    In this section the Lord gives His teaching on one of the evangelical counsels, namely, chastity. Notice the Church calls poverty, chastity and obedience “counsels” not “commands”. Also, the Lord makes it clear that not everyone is called to chaste celibacy, including, it seems his disciples. The Lord does not say, “You, who are my disciples must be eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom.”

    Father also cites Mt 22:30 that in heaven “men neither marry nor are given in marriage” to prove that marriage is not an eschatological thing. Yet this Scripture does not say that there is no marriage in heaven. The Lord says there is no marrying or being given in marriage in heaven. Can marriage which began on earth continue in heaven, albeit without the marital embrace or the cares of this world as a sign that “love never ends” (1 Cor. 13:8)?

    Is Christian marriage really the establishment by a couple as a domestic church with (eschatological potential), where husband, wife and children come to adore the one true God and work and strive to save their souls? Does all of this dissolve in death? Is Christian marriage just a human contract (at least in the West) or is Christian marriage a covenant that does not die?

    The Sadducees asked about marriage in heaven (Mt. 22:23-33) to try to “trip up” the Lord with their question. But the Lord was most direct when He said. “In the resurrection, they neither marry nor are given in marriage.” Could it be that purposes of marriage which held sway on earth; to procreate, to control sexual passion, to unite man and woman for mutual support are not necessary in the Kingdom? The things of this world that are part of married life: sexual intercourse, bearing children, ownership of things, etc., are part of the “form of this world” which is passing away. “They are like the angels in of God heaven.” (Mt. 22:30). Does all this mean that the spiritual “ties that bind” are destroyed in death?

    As mentioned above could there be one property of marriage that is eternal: “Love never ends”? (1 Cor. 13:8).

    St. John Chrysostom taught that married Christians are known to be married on the day of judgement and in the Kingdom. Christians will know and be joyous in spouses and in their children. There will be a restoration in Christ (1 Peter 5:10) not to earthly marriage, but to a thing much greater, a union of souls, rather than bodies, a unity that has it’s beginning in marriage but reaches a far more greater life and condition (cf. St. John Chrysostom’s, Letter to a Young Widow).

    Father mentions that clear evidence is given from the early Church that married men when admitted to the priesthood gave up their marital rights. As proof of this Father cites Roman Cholij’s book, Clerical Celibacy in the East and West. While the book cites many local councils or writings we know that in practice the canons that came from these regional councils or writings were promulgated only locally and then without a great deal of force. It is not till the Council of Elvira (a local council, not an Ecumenical Council) in the early fourth century that mandatory celibacy for the clergy is mentioned. (By the way) This Council also forbade the use of images in churches (Canon 36). This canon held no sway in the West or the East but only in parts of Spain. In those days regional councils and their canons were often ignored. The Council of Arles (314 ad) also decreed perpetual continence for bishops, priests and deacons. Yet, over and over Western regional councils and theologians have to keep reiterating that cleric must be continent. This seems to indicate a problem with the clergy “receiving” these teachings. Roman Cholij’s book supports clerical celibacy “from the beginning”. How much of what is found in the book was kept universally or even agreed on generally. (As an aside not Roman Cholij has left the active ministry and is married.)

    It is a good idea to realize that local custom or legislation did not necessarily imply a general rule.

    • Fr Khouri I read your interesting comments as well as Fr Stravinskas’ article both viewpoints have merit. I agree with this last comment in principle and the efficacy of Eastern Rite Catholic married priests. And will leave the different perspectives to rest on their merit. As I’ve grown and aged in the Latin Rite priesthood knowledge of my identity with Christ deepened as did focus on priest as victim. Perhaps due to painful trying experience and a rationale for fortitude. Christ crucified, suffering, willingness to accept retribution entered into that identity. That form of self giving sacrificial personal love of Christ became the divine signature of my experience as a Latin priest. Not to demean since Eastern Rite priests may choose celibacy for those same reasons that I found define the why of celibacy in the Latin Church. Neither does my experience conclude that married priests cannot experience the same.

  11. Christian celibacy is a supernatural gift; it has Trinitarian, Christological, Marian and Ecclesiological foundations. It also has eschatological implications. Those who have not been given this gift do not have the capacity to understand it. Jesus Christ did not explain it to his Apostles. He merely said: “Not all men can receive this precept, but only those to whom it is given … He who is able to receive this, let him receive it” (Mt 19:11-12).

    Those to whom it is given don’t necessarily understand it immediately. When this gift of Christian celibacy is lived authentically, understanding grows and the celibate comes to realise the utter reality of the godliness of this amazing undeserved gift, and he can already begin to taste and experience the resurrection of the body this side of eternity.

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