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Dare to be Irrelevant

Over the past fifty years “The Role of the Church in the Modern World” became “The Role of the Modern World in the Church.”

Photo from a Call to Action liturgy in 2008. (John Buescher)

For better or for worse, most priests and bishops try to be relevant. In 1965, Pope Paul VI released the documents of Vatican II. Among them was Gaudium et Spes, “The Church in the Modern World.” Henceforth, with renewed vigor, we would engage the world. It didn’t take long for the new spirit to dominate our devotion. But a funny thing happened on the road to a relevant Church.

In 1968, I was a freshman in a Catholic high school run by the Christian Brothers, dressed in their prim and proper habits. A local priest taught religion, and I learned traditional moral tools such as “the principle of double effect.” By the following year, the Christian Brothers had become relevant. As the school year opened, they cast off their religious garb and sported Beatles haircuts and sideburns. In religion class, we listened to groovy music, such as the Simon and Garfunkel song, “Sounds of Silence.”

The Mass got relevant. Vatican II merely permitted English (the vernacular) in the Mass but did not mandate it. Pastors, inflamed with the spirit of Vatican II, went even further than English. We got hootenanny Masses, then folk Masses, and even polka Masses for the elderly. That’s entertainment! But it’s not worship.

Soon the hierarchy got relevant. The Jesuit Berrigan brothers became prominent anti-Vietnam War activists, pouring blood on draft records and other radical antics. Priests married nuns. Back in the day, they called their new and exciting ministries “raising consciousness” or some such psychobabble.

Many people wanted “relevant Church doctrines” – that’s more polite than “Don’t tell me what to do!” In 1968 when Pope Paul VI reaffirmed the immorality of contraception, many priests and religious rebelled. Rebellion was easy back then because it was an essential credential of radical chic. Priests like Andrew Greeley (the Chicago sociologist and best-selling author of dirty novels) suggested we would lose many Catholics by holding fast to irrelevant Church teaching. You know, just like Jesus losing most of His disciples during the Eucharistic Discourse: “…unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.” (Jn. 6:53) But Jesus did not have a church payroll to meet.

The USCCB (under a different name back then) got relevant. Over many decades, the USCCB has meddled in every social issue known to Americans. Does anyone take the endless documents on immigration, the economy, global warming or global cooling, or climate change – whatever – seriously?

Indeed, to a large extent, priests and bishops ceased to be relevant shepherds and became sheep of the culture, wholly-owned subsidiaries of liberal fashions. Over the past fifty years “The Role of the Church in the Modern World” became “The Role of the Modern World in the Church.”

Fifty years of relevant “Please, like me!” tactics haven’t worked. Despite our best efforts, we have become irrelevant. Let’s try something new – and old. Let’s try the truth of the Gospel:

• Men, be faithful to your wives in marriage. Be kind and considerate. If you are dealing in porn, give it up. Just do it.

• Ladies, this is from the Book of Proverbs: “It is better to sit in a corner of the housetop than with a quarrelsome wife and an unruly household.” (Prov. 25:24) Maybe dad has a point.

• Fathers, your kids don’t need you as a friend. They need you as a father. Expect their respect. Discipline them in charity and justice.
• If you have kids in public schools and are oblivious to the family life education program, you are bad parents. Never allow that brood of vipers to corrupt your kids. Begin by making principals cringe at the sound of your voice.
• Speaking of broods of vipers, do not allow Catholic authorities who dissent from the Church’s teaching on human sexuality to ruin your morality. They risk the fires of Hell and threaten to take you with them.
• So you never pray as a family outside of church and neglect their religious education? Shame on you!
• Do not allow misbehaving children to manipulate you. If they are leading immoral lives, don’t be shy in measuring their actions against the Ten Commandments. They are not rejecting you. They are rejecting God.

• Kids, if you’re spending countless hours in the basement with video games, get a life. Do your chores, study hard, and get to bed on time.
• If you’re texting and driving, stop it. What are you, nuts?
• If your smartphone is in your hand or front of you at the dinner table, you are rude and disrespectful.

• You are not a victim. Christians in Africa and the Middle East who lose their heads because of their faith are victims. Grow up. Take responsibility for your life and keep working.
• Got a lousy job? Deal with it. Be honest and hardworking until you find a new one. Quit complaining. Support your family. “Whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Cor. 10:31)
• Have you ever heard of “Catholic guilt” as a form of whining and complaining about the burdens of the Catholic faith? Get over it. Guilt is good. It’s part of the nervous system of the soul.
• Don’t make Jesus sick. “‘I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of my mouth.” (Rev. 3:15-16) Practice your faith with increasing fervor.

Afraid that you won’t practice what you preach? Do frequent Confessions disqualify you from preaching the Gospel? Invite critics to join you. There is always room for one more sinner who is confident in the truth but not confident in himself. But please don’t ask us to change the Gospel and common-sense rules to be “relevant.”

Jesus said to his disciples: “Go into the whole world and proclaim the gospel to every creature. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved; whoever does not believe will be condemned.” (Mk. 16:15) He never minces words or equivocates. So He lost a lot of parishioners during His three years of public ministry. His courageous honesty throughout His ministry led to the Cross. But that Cross is the great sign of His relevance – and the relevance of our witness — in this life and for eternity.

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About Father Jerry J. Pokorsky 42 Articles
Father Jerry J. Pokorsky is a priest of the Diocese of Arlington. He is pastor of St. Catherine of Siena parish in Great Falls, Virginia.. He holds a Master of Divinity degree as well as a master’s degree in moral theology.


  1. Thank you Father Pokorsky! Finally I don’t feel so alone in the fight. Saint Teresa of Avila prayed “God save us from sour faced Saints.” My prayer is “God save us from relevant clergy.” The relevant clergy are sending souls to Hell.

  2. While reading this article I am very much reminded of the liturgical movement initiated by Pope Benedict XVI. His writings seem so proper to this above discussion. He notes that the disintegration of liturgy has led to the crisis in the Church.

    • Pope Benedict augmented to some degree this movement, but it perhaps was/is the most moving thing in the total array of efforts to get a handle on the Liturgy. Most of us sat dumbfounded, wondering in our minds along with the point of a lead caption of The National Review at the time of the Council, “What In The Name Of God Is Going On In The Catholic Church?” I met with the diocesan Bishop of Richmond, Bishop Russell, to relate what I had been seeing and hearing in my parish church in Reston at that time. He called in the Auxiliary, Bishop Sullivan, who berated every thing I said. Years later, for peace in my soul, when I saw the small altar crucifix removed from the altar, and with the absence of a dominant Crucifix in the Church to depict what goes on in a Catholic or Orthodox Church, I knew I had to move on to a different parish. Our desire to restore all of our traditions stands yet not totally resolved, but I believe it can be, it must be, and shall be. St. Pius V, St. Pius X, Pope St. Gregory, and Pope St. Leo the Great, pray for us with the whole company of all the saints and martyrs! And Archbishop LeFebvre, please pray for all of us, especially those in Curial Offices who shuffled your letters from one pile to another, to avoid getting you the papal mandate required for consecration of Bishops, that new little canon law begun by St. Paul VI.

  3. This is the opinion of a Pharisee. Catholic priests don’t have kids and aren’t in families but think they have the right to lecture the rest of us on how to live. Mr. Pokorsky, grow up and get a real job and then see how well your blather holds up in the real world. (Also, your reference to wives being quarrelsome is an endorsement of wife-beating. I am willing to bet good money that you tell wives who come to you about their husbands beating and screaming at them to go home and be a flatter, greyer, more submissive doormat. You will always tell wives and kids that Dad’s rage is not his fault.)

    • I marvel at the culture of today which has smugly resisted the didactic approach of Jesus. At the point of where certain “directionalities” were given to people by Jesus, there was contentious objection. Witness reactions then and today to the “eye of the needle” and other injunctive statements of Jesus. As for the commandments? Who does God, if there is such a Being, think He is to tell us anything about life or how we should live? And witness today the virulent cynicism so prevalent in the current world’s eye view of the world itself and the life in it! O tempora, O mores! And where, oh where, is the leadership, which seems so diabolical, coming from, and what is its purpose? Could only a poet know the answer to that question? (As in “Whose woods these are, I think I know!”)

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