
Denver, Colo., Mar 29, 2020 / 05:00 am (CNA).- Sarah Sefranek, a Catholic wife and mother living in Parker, Colorado, is 37 weeks pregnant with her fourth child.
While she normally homeschools her other children even when there’s not a global pandemic on, coronavirus restrictions have changed what normal life looks like for everyone.
“It’s not regular homeschooling” right now, she said. “Regular homeschooling means you go out, you see your friends, you do exciting things.”
Sefranek and her family have been doing their best to stay home and maintain social distancing in order to avoid getting the coronavirus, especially so close to her due date. They’ve stopped going to the library, they’ve stopped playdates and book club meetings. Sefranek told CNA her husband leaves the house only to get groceries or other essentials.
But, like most pregnant women, even if Sefranek remains healthy, labor, delivery and postpartum recovery will likely look very different for her than they would have without pandemic restrictions.
“I know the things that were helpful to me when my (other babies) came, like having a meal train and having my mom come over. Now I can’t have playdates for my big kids while I’m recovering. I don’t even know where people are going to get the meat to make me meal for a meal train. So it is strange,” Sefranek said.
Things “suddenly felt a lot more serious” for Sefranek when her doctor offered to do a telemedicine visit for her 38 week appointment instead of an in-clinic appointment. Normally, at this point in pregnancy, Sefranek would be going in for weekly visits until she delivers. But her doctor told her this time, unless she had serious concerns that something was wrong, it would be best to do the visit over a video call.
Looming large among Sefranek’s worries – what happens if she, or her baby, get coronavirus?
“Recommendations are changing all the time, but right now, if I tested positive, they would want to separate the baby from me at birth, which is pretty scary to me,” she said.
There is also a shortage of coronavirus tests in most places in the U.S. Sefranek wonders what would happen if she showed up to the hospital to deliver, and had a cough or a fever, but could not get tested.
“I feel a little bit like I have to hide in even more of a bubble, because I feel I can’t catch anything at all. In a way, I feel I’m more scared of being separated from baby than I am of the virus itself,” Sefranek added, which she admits is “maybe not rational.”
A dearth of research on coronavirus and pregnancy
Information about pregnancy and coronavirus is scant, as the disease is so new and there has not been enough time for extensive research.
While pregnant women are not considered immunocompromised in the classic sense of the term, their immune systems are considered “suppressed,” meaning they are more susceptible to illnesses like the flu or coronavirus, and may suffer more severe symptoms and complications than they normally would have, were they not pregnant.
“With viruses from the same family as COVID-19, and other viral respiratory infections, such as influenza, women have had a higher risk of developing severe illness. It is always important for pregnant women to protect themselves from illnesses,” the CDC website states.
The CDC notes that it is still unknown whether mothers infected with coronavirus could pass the illness on to their babies, though it says that so far, no infants born to COVID-19 positive mothers have also tested positive for COVID-19. The virus has also thus far not been found in the amniotic fluid or breast milk of mothers who have tested positive.
There have been a small number of reported complications in pregnancy or delivery in mothers who are COVID-19 positive, though the CDC notes that it is unclear if the complications were related to the infection. Women of childbearing age are also in age categories where coronavirus death rates are not as high as older populations.
Jennifer Murphy is the medical director of the Pregnancy Support Center of Carroll County in Maryland. The pregnancy center helps women in crisis pregnancies or with low incomes with material assistance such as diapers, with medical care such as pregnancy tests or sonograms, and by connecting them with additional resources.
Murphy told CNA that so far, her center has not had any of their clients test positive for coronavirus. As a precaution, they have moved most of their operations to the parking lot, and only bring women into their facility if necessary, and once they have been screened for symptoms.
“You always worry that pregnant women are more susceptible to things than other people. So far, the data doesn’t seem to show that,” Murphy said.
“I’m not making light of it, but there’s so much in the news that’s horrifying, but most people will actually come through this just fine, and there’s not so far any evidence that pregnant women do worse than anyone else,” she added.
Murphy said she has been telling her clients to remain calm, to practice good hygiene and quarantine protocols, and to be in close contact with their doctors if they do suspect symptoms of coronavirus.
“It’s a lot of quelling of anxiety, a lot of folks who are just very afraid, and understandably,” Murphy said. “But anxiety isn’t good for you when you’re pregnant either, so we’re trying to emphasize positive things they can do quarantine-wise, and keeping their environment clean and calm as much as possible, and trying not to think too far ahead about bad things.”
“Pregnancy is a time of anxiety anyway, especially first time moms,” Murphy added. “And it’s hard not to have this add a great burden, but just to try to stay focused on a few good things and taking care of your baby. So just (focus on) keeping yourself safe, and probably not even overexposing yourself to media, because I think that just makes it worse,” she said.
“Be informed, but don’t make yourself crazy.”
Disrupting birth plans
The lack of information on pregnancy and coronavirus worries Anna H., a Catholic in Long Island, New York, where the pandemic has hit the hardest in the U.S. thus far. She is 22 weeks pregnant with her first child.
“It’s just the unknown,” Anna told CNA.
“There isn’t enough research on how it affects pregnant women, how it affects babies. I know there’s a lot of research that says that it probably isn’t too bad for the babies, but I also have asthma,” she adds, an underlying condition that could worsen the effects of coronavirus, a respiratory disease.
Anna, who teaches high school theology, said her school has been closed since March 12. She’s been teaching online, which is easier on her body, and she’s less worried about exposure now that she and her husband are working from home. She said she’s also grateful for the stay-at-home order in her state, and hopes the aggressive approach will slow the spread of the virus and relieve some of the pressure on hospitals and doctors.
Already in New York, some overwhelmed hospitals are not allowing pregnant women to bring any support people with them – no spouses, parents, children, friends or doulas.
“I’m pretty nervous about that,” Anna said. She and her husband joke that they would schedule a home birth with a midwife if it came down to him not being allowed at the birth – and Anna knows a Catholic mom in the area who has delivered all five of her children at home.
But she’s hoping it doesn’t have to come to that, and that things will calm down by the time she needs to deliver.
“Right now I feel like we don’t need to worry about that too much. We can put it in God’s hands for now,” she said.
Baylyn Wagner, who is 28 weeks along and due on June 19th with her third child, has already decided to change her labor and delivery plans in light of the coronavirus pandemic.
“Initially I thought, ‘Oh, it’ll for sure be over and done with by June and we won’t have to worry about delivery,’” Wagner, who lives in Minnesota, told CNA.
But then she started hearing reports of hospitals restricting support people for pregnant women to one person, or to no one. Her own hospital emailed her and told her that they would only allow one support person, even though Wagner had been planning on her husband, doula, and birth photographer attending her labor and delivery.
Wagner said her doctor tried to reassure her. Wagner had a late loss in her second pregnancy – she miscarried a little after 21 weeks – and in light of that, Wagner’s doctor said she would do her best to advocate for the hospital to make an exception for Wagner’s husband to be present for the birth of their third child.
“But she said if it gets to ‘full crisis mode,’ those were her words, they absolutely could limit it down because their priority is keeping their staff healthy. I know hospitals are doing what they can, but for us…with the anxiety we already had with this pregnancy, we chose to look into midwives to do a home birth option,” she said.
After talking with four different midwives, Wagner said it sounded to her like a lot of couples were making the same changes.
Wagner said they’ve also changed their contract with their birth photographer to a more tentative plan, that accounts for whether the photographer is sick and cannot come to the birth.
Wagner lives with her grandparents, so she said they will watch her son while she gives birth at home. Her grandfather is also a Catholic deacon, and she said she is considering asking him to baptize her child soon after the birth, in the event that churches are not yet open.
“There’s really no way to know right now what things will look like by June, if things will be better, if we’ll able to have Masses again by that point, or what the world will look like,” Wagner said.
Keeping calm, trusting God
Claire Le, who lives in Littleton, Colorado, is expecting her first child with her husband Huy. The Le’s said they stocked up on food as they saw the pandemic worsening, and since then they have been staying home as much as possible to avoid any exposure.
“My main fear is if I contract the virus, then I would have been in ICU and then my husband can’t be there during the delivery,” Claire said. “And then also, if hospital protocols get even worse, there may even be a chance he may not be there. So, right now we’re trying to control what we can, and trying to both stay healthy.”
“I think we just constantly remind ourselves that this is not in our control,” Huy added. “I mean, we can pray for a good May 1st due date where everything’s just back to normal, but things like that are not really under our control.”
Thinking about postpartum recovery is what makes Claire a little sad, she said. Her family is out in California, and they were planning to come see the baby and help out after the birth. But now, they’re not sure when a visit will be possible.
Huy and Claire are also wondering about the baptism, and if it will be performed privately.
Claire said she has found peace in prayer and offering up the situation to God.
“I know God’s been with us from the very beginning, from conception, and he’s been with us the whole way. I know we’ll be okay,” she said.
Huy said staying connected with loved ones, watching daily Mass on YouTube, and praying together as a couple has been helping them stay calm at this time.
“We went to a chapel which was relatively quiet, that gives us a little bit of a release where we can just go there and with God for a while,” he said.
Anna said she has been trying to balance her worries and anxieties by also counting her blessings.
“I always try to think about what blessings I have at this time: more time with my husband, more time prepare for the baby, more time to rest,” she said. “The fact that I’m not on my feet all the time is really helpful…teaching is physically demanding because you’re on your feet so much.”
The time at home has also afforded her more time to pray, Anna said.
“I did a novena to St. Gerard (a patron saint of pregnancy) when we first got pregnant and I just started the other day to do another novena to St. Gerard,” Anna said. “(I’m also) able to live stream daily mass, where normally when I’m a teaching I don’t have time for that.”
Wagner said she and her husband have been trying to say a daily rosary in order to stay calm at this time.
“(We’re) especially meditating on what Mary and Joseph went through and their pregnancy and their birth with Jesus, and uniting our own uncertainty to what they experienced,” she said.
She’s also been using Hallow, a Catholic prayer app that leads users through guided meditations similar to the popular Calm app, but based on Scripture readings.
“They’ve had a whole series of little guided meditations on different ways to cope with isolation and stress through all of this, so that’s been a nice tool and prayer as well,” she said.
Sefranek said the pandemic has made her identify more closely with women experiencing unplanned pregnancies, and helped her realize how much of life is out of her control.
“I planned this pregnancy nine months ago,” Sefranek said. “I didn’t plan to have a baby in the middle of pandemic…maybe every pregnancy, every birth, in a way, is unplanned.”
“I don’t want to diminish the pain and the difficulty of a real crisis pregnancy,” she added. “It just is reminding me of that…(because) so much of this outside of my control.”
Sefranek said she’s been saying a lot of “midnight rosaries” when she wakes up from pregnancy discomfort, and that’s been helping her to feel at peace, though she deeply misses the sacraments. She said she’s also been connecting with loved ones virtually to help ease her anxieties.
She is also paying attention to the small blessings in her life. For example, she said, the other day she found out that she had two extra boxes of sticks for her fertility monitor that she will need to track her cycle once the baby is born. She had previously been worried – panic buying has caused the sticks to be scarce online.
“(It was) a small thing, but maybe God had a plan for me and he used my absent mindedness to give me this small thing right now that could increase my peace,” she said.
“So that was a nice reminder that God can work through the things that feel really frustrating in the moment.”
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Pelosi. What a charmer. Thinks she knows more about Catholicism than an Archbishop?? Really??? That would be hysterical if it were not so offensive. She wants the church to approve abortion and transgender activity?? Women priests? Says she is pro-life but evidently only for babies who are not first aborted. If Pelosi stands by these non-catholic liberal positions, there are a number of Protestant denominations I could recommend to her where she would be comfortable. In fact, there appears to be a new denomination opening in Germany right now. Clearly she identifies as Democrat, not Catholic. For now, bravo to the Archbishop for holding the line.
Who’s Nancy Pelosi?
She’s pro-life because she cares about children. She makes sure that they are killed before they become a “problem.” I sometimes wonder what ever happened to this old thing they called . . . excommunication?
Georgetown University is no longer a Catholic Institution. Housespeaker Pelosi found a sure welcome there. Zero chance of rebuke. If Nancy Pelosi’s radical feminist beliefs are antithetical to Catholicism she does find wider support, “So, yeah some of it is stirred up by some of the more conservative leaders in the Church. It’s sad to say – not His Holiness”.
Ironically it’s faux Catholics who are among the more severe critics of the Catholic faith, those in Congress who pose a great danger to its practice. Although Pelosi perceives herself as a fighter for the rights of the marginalized, for ‘kids who go to bed hungry’, she anomalously holds they be allowed to have their bodies transsexually mutilated.
She and Pres Biden deserve excommunication for reasons of their adamant apostasy, and for the enormously ill effect upon the Church at large who see in this approval by Rome, tacit or otherwise. It’s insufficient for the USCCB to announce they’re ‘troubled’ by Pelosi’s support of LGBT. Whether there isn’t unanimity, Bishops, faithful bishops still have obligation to be far tougher. Pope Francis has no jurisdiction to prevent bishops, or presbyters from upholding Apostolic tradition, and the commandments he directed them to teach the world. It’s about time they accept the reality that we’re in an unavoidable fight to protect the faith. And with greater conviction.
And I should add more positively, that we’re also in an unavoidable fight to witness to Christ.
I think that Speaker Pelosi’s life should serve as a cautionary tale for all Christians–before we become involved with any organization/church/club/charity/lodge/fraternity/sorority/collee/business, etc.–we need to “vet it”. Make SURE that it doesn’t promote actions that are not only counter to our faith, but actually are EVIL. I think Nancy Pelosi got caught up in the heady world of politics and power-seeking within that world, and found it easier to accept evil things like abortion and various sexual sins because her love for “politics” over-ruled her love for her Church. She stopped listening to legitimate Church authorities and started listening to those Catholic dissidents who “tickled her ears” and validated her involvement with the politics and the “pro-choice” “pro-gay” “pro-trans” movements. The more political power she gained, the harder it became for her to step back and carefully examine her views in the light of Holy Mother Church.
We were previously “One Nation Under God” but no longer. God said He knew us when He placed us in the womb. I am not a Biblical scholar but I have to wonder if what they are claiming as climate change is possibly God’s wrath upon world who has lost it’s way. The people of Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed for their sins so you can imagine His feelings concerning the world which He created.
What is frightening is the thoughts and actions of our government and education systems. I have never seen so much crime and hatred as we have today. Satan is alive and well.
The word that jumped out at me in this article was in the last paragraph where… power. She wanted to be a priest instead of a nun because she said priests have more power, real power.No reference to the fact that priests are called to sacrifice and service and obedience to Church teaching in order to correctly practice the power of confecting the Eucharist. Pelosi got the meaning of the priesthood all wrong but in doing so she reveals her own deepest drive which is the lust for power, even to the point of rebellion against Church teaching.
If she truly believed the eucharist is the “body and blood of Christ” she would never take up these positions. Her Bishop is wise to give her an opportunity to reflect on what she is doing to her soul. She obviously doesn’t believe in the real presence of Christ in the eucharist for it would be reflected in her actions and disposition. She has no humility. Anybody who accepts Christ in the eucharist knows this. Poor woman. So lost she doesn’t even realize it. Thank God her Bishop is trying to help her. Calling out with love.
We read: “Pelosi claimed that the U.S. bishops ‘were mischaracterizing what was in that bill [the 2,000-page Affordable Care Act]…”
How soon we forget the machinations of the Pelosi fast-track sausage machine! Wasn’t Head Chef Pelosi the one who said “we have to pass the bill in order to find out what’s in it!”
Nancy Pelosi is delusional and also suffering from some dementia! She has had power here in SF Bay Area for so long she thinks she can be in charge of everything! God have mercy on her soul and change her heart !
To understand the enigmatic and faithiness Pelosi-Biden pontificate, we have to go back to 1991…This was the year of the Senate Confirmation of Justice Clarence Thomas, and the year that Centesimus Annus was promulgated by the real pope (September).
Nevertheless (in October), bottom-of-his-class BIDEN grilled Thomas on (a) whether he placed the natural law above his oath of office (instead of part of it!), (b) whether natural law applied to individual behavior or was actually reducible to (subjective) “freedom,” (c) whether he viewed natural law as “a static set of unchanging” principles instead of “an evolving body of ideals” (the “tyranny of relativism”!) and (d) whether he would use natural law to limit government’s [!] ability to roll with new social challenges.
An “evolutionary” response to circumstances, what in the parallel Marxist-Soviet context was worded the “correlation of forces” (Nikita Khrushchev’s term)…
As for the Pelosi-Biden Rosary-fondling “Catholic” MINDSET: (a) “What else is socialism but Communism with the claws retracted” (Whittaker Chambers); (b) what else is the Pelosi-Biden orbit but the “slaughter of the innocents” but with six zeros added; (c) what else is the Pelosi-Biden mindset but the obtuse rejection of the non-demonstrable first principle on non-contradiction—whereby natural law prohibitions evolve into their opposite, under the clairvoyant enabling powers of the divinized State.
About which, St. John Paul II reminds us of the BOND between faith and morality: ““The relationship between faith and morality shines forth with all its brilliance in the UNCONDITIONAL RESPECT DUE TO THE INSISTENT DEMANDS OF THE PERSONAL DIGNITY OF EVERY MAN (italics), demands protected by those moral norms which prohibit WITHOUT EXCEPTION (Caps added) actions which are intrinsically evil” (Veritatis Splendor, n. 90).
And as for tuition-sucking Georgetown University—the “administration” of just moving things along! And, as part of the Academic-Banking Complex (the ABCs!), to confine the student minions to suckled moral stupidity, and to decades as indentured servants!…all the while, retrograde Georgetown imagining itself to be progressive…
From the deepest pits of hell, Herod snickers.
Tweak Centesimus Annus in (May).